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Archive for Health & Psychology

REACTIONS TO PROLONGED STRESS

Posted by betty Saturday, September 26, 2009 at 11:45 pm | Comments (0)

Prolonged periods of stress, where the body does not return to a homeostatic state, can result in chronic exhaustion and illness. Research has shown that groups of people undergoing stressful life crisis, such as bereavement, marital breakdown, immigration, finances or depression, show significant impairment in their immune system. When you are under stress, you start to notice signs such as some of those listed below. These are triggered by a number of physiological changes as your body prepares for action. Physical exercise helps boost the immune system and increases the activity of natural killer cells, which destroys foreign bodies, preventing illness and disease. Hopefully, you and I can monitor our bodies to reduce stress in our lives.

 

SIGNS OF STRESS

PHYSICAL REACTIONS

Difficulty swallowing

Pupils dilates, mouth goes dry, saliva decreases

Aching neck, backache, muscle tension, fatigue, muscle pain

Neck and shoulder muscles tense -  all large skeletal muscles contract for action

Hyperventilation, panic, chest pains, tingling, palpitations, asthma

Breathing becomes faster and shallower supplying more oxygen for muscles

High blood pressure

Heart pumps faster – blood vessels dilate, so blood flows to brain and muscles

Rapid fatigue

Liver releases stored sugar to provide fuel for quick energy

Nausea, indigestion, heartburn, ulcers

Digestion slows down or ceases as blood is diverted away from the stomach

Excess sweating, blushing, skin dryness, rashes

Blood vessels and capillaries move to skin surface to cool body by perspiration

Frequent urination, diarrhea

Muscles at the opening of anus and bladder are relaxed

Immune system less efficient

Cortisol, adrenaline, and noradrenalin are released

 

Word for today: Due (Luo)  (English - moon) (Swahili - Mwezi)

Depression and Immigration

Posted by betty Wednesday, September 2, 2009 at 10:35 am | Comments (0)

DEPRESSED IMMIGRANT:

Depression takes different stall and approach to many people; but for the immigrant, it is critical-as in life and death. Many immigrants I have had a chance to talk, vehemently express the pain, agony, fear, anxiety and uncertainties that are associated with immigration process and the long wait-not including the dollars spent on lawyers and fees. This applies primarily to immigrants who came by air - they cannot cross by road or sea or swim across the Atlantic ocean to their destinations.  I will share my experiences after being in the US for fourteen years (Labour Day September 3, 1995) and no green card. The pain, money and other depressive states associated with the process of getting the papers in the RIGHT WAY - have cost me dearly - including my health, money and unspeakable words. How do you know if you are depressed? Read my article dated 8/17/09.

What causes depression? How do you know when depressed

Posted by betty Monday, August 17, 2009 at 11:35 pm | Comments (1)
Depression is an illness that involves the body, mood, and thoughts that affects the way a person eats and sleeps, the way one feels about oneself, and the way one thinks about things. A depressive disorder is not the same as a passing blue mood. It is not a sign of personal weakness or a condition that can be wished away. People with a depressive disease cannot merely “pull themselves together” and get better. Without treatment, symptoms can last for weeks, months, or years. Appropriate treatment, however, can help most people with depression.

The signs and symptoms of depression include loss of interest in activities that were once interesting or enjoyable, including sex; loss of appetite ( anorexia) (with weight loss or overeating with weight gain; loss of emotional expression (flat affect); a persistently sad, anxious or empty mood; feelings of hopelessness, pessimism, guilt, worthlessness, or helplessness; social withdrawal; unusual fatigue, low energy level, a feeling of being slowed down; sleep disturbance with insomnia, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping; trouble concentrating, remembering, or making decisions; unusual restlessness or irritability; persistent physical problems such as headaches, digestive disorders, or chronic pain, or that do not respond to treatment; thoughts of death or suicide or suicide attempts. Alcohol or drug abuse may be signs of depression.

The principal types of depression are major depression,  dysthymia and bipolar disease (also called manic-depression disease) depression causes a combination of symptoms that interfere with the ability to work, study, sleep, eat, and enjoy once pleasurable activities. Such a disabling episode of depression may occur only once but more commonly occurs several times in a lifetime.

Dysthymia is a less severe type of depression with long-term chronic symptoms that do not disable, but keep one from functioning well or from feeling good. Many people with dysthymia also experience major depressive episodes at some time in their lives.

Bipolar disorder (manic-depressive illness) is characterized by cycling mood changes: severe highs (manic) and lows (depression). Sometimes the mood switches are dramatic and rapid, but more often they are gradual. When in the depressed phase of the cycle, one can have any or all of the symptoms of a depressive disorder. When in the manic cycle, one may be overactive, over talkative, and have excess energy. Mania often affects thinking, judgment, and social behavior in ways that cause serious problems and embarrassment. For example, the individual in a manic phase may feel elated, full of grand schemes that might range from unwise business decisions to romantic sprees. Mania, left untreated, may worsen to a psychotic state. Bipolar disorder is not nearly as common as other forms of depressive disorders.

The signs and symptoms of mania include abnormal or excessive elation; markedly increased level of energy; less need for sleep; grandiose notions; racing thoughts and increased talking; increased sexual desire; poor judgment; and inappropriate social behavior.

Some reasons that causes depression:

·        mental state characterized by a pessimistic sense of inadequacy and a despondent lack of activity

·        a long-term economic state characterized by unemployment and low prices and low levels of trade and investment

·        a long time await for foreigners to get their legal papers

·        natural depression: a sunken or depressed geological formation

·        sad feelings of gloom and inadequacy

·        a period during the 1930s when there was a worldwide economic depression and mass unemployment – this is what is happening today

·        depressive disorder: a state of depression and anhedonia so severe as to require clinical intervention

·        angular distance below the horizon (especially of a celestial object)

·        pushing down; “depression of the space bar on the typewriter”

Clinical depression is still widely misunderstood. The prevailing attitude is “Keep a stiff upper lip, have a drink, maybe it will go away.” About 12% of men and up to 25% of women suffer from depression during their lifetimes. While more women attempt suicide, men are more likely to be successful. It is important to seek professional help if any of the above applies to you, a friend or a loved one. Good mental health!

Word for today: sumbua (Swahili) thago (Luo) Harass (English)

 

 

 

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Life’s Scare?

Posted by betty Thursday, August 13, 2009 at 1:23 pm | Comments (1)

HEALTHY BODY, HEALTHY MIND AND HEALTHY FINANCES:

Some of you may have known, heard or read that I filed for bankruptcy in 2007 (something that took a lot of courage to do and to make it public) and wrote a book ‘Before, After, And Beyond Bankruptcy’ http://www.babbankruptcy.com. This was my financial struggle - which is secondary in any one’s life.

Last month, July 8, 2009, I got a life scare experience!  I was rushed to Emergency Room on an ambulance with elevated High Blood Pressure of 169/102.  The doctors’ said ‘mini, mild, small - stroke’ Ok, the scary part is the STROKE one.

It appeared to me that I was given a second chance in life.  Prior to this, I was involved in a lot of things including being a full time PhD student, full time job as a Mental Health Therapist, Promoting my book, an online magazine, http://bcultural.org plus, plus…,

While traveling to South Bend- Indiana on June 28, 2009 for a live Radio TV Show with The Harvest Show - http://www.harvest-tv.com – I sat next to lady who appeared very friendly. We were in a very small plain or jet from Atlanta to Indiana.   A lot of things crossed my mind - like the pilot who died while piloting, Air France from Rio etc.., When the attendance announced that people should put their seat belts – I mentioned to this lady that every time I travel, I tell myself that I will lose weight so that the seat belt can go round my waist without pushing my stomach. The lady responded – ‘do you really want to lose weight? I affirmatively said ‘YES’. To cut the long story short, after landing, she introduced me to her ‘Health Coach’ Marianne Garrett.  She gave me her card and a few days later after returning to California, I called her to check on this program that helps people lose and maintain weight. Of course I had tried several weights lose programs and I was skeptical as any of us would be.

I did check with my primary doctor before venturing into this program. I started this medically proven program on July 11, 2009.  I was weighing 277 pounds (23 away from 300 pounds). Today as I write this message my weight has dropped to 258 pounds.  I cannot stress enough what difference this has made in my life. My pressure has dropped drastically, I have energy and I feel good. For a long time, my weight never bothered me coming from a culture where ‘the more weight one has, the richer people see you or assume’.  Well, this has changed now.

TRILOGY - Healthy Body, Healthy Mind, Healthy Finances.  I have experienced all the three. This is not an easy short cut to weight lose, but rather a lifestyle change. You don’t have to wait until there is a life threatening experience like mine to do something about your life. Remember, you only have ONE LIFE TO LIVE! If weight lose is not your concern, then Healthy Mind and Healthy Finances would be something to be concerned about. Check on this website and surf for yourself. Send me an email; call me if you have any questions – http://www.bettyodak.tsfl.com Have a healthy total life.

 

 

 

 

What is your situation today?

Posted by betty Wednesday, August 12, 2009 at 5:06 am | Comments (0)

The person and the situation:

Is our behavior shaped by the situation we are in or by the type of a person we are? This is one of enduring questions in psychology theory and research. Depending on where we are and what is happening, each of us can be outgoing, shy, aggressive, friendly, depressed, frightened, or excited. The question is how the situation influences our behavior, as well as how our behavior reflects the individual.  this may be different in different cultural settings, it may also be diffierent on how we plan and organize our finances. What is your  situation or personality today?

Word for today - More  (Luo) Raha (Swhaili) Happiness (English)

How far back do you remember things…,

Posted by betty Monday, August 10, 2009 at 7:53 am | Comments (1)

How far back can you remember certain events, people or places? Are you able to remember things at age 2, 3 or 10? Philosophical differences in the study of learning and memory: memory retrieval or recall, what are the factors that causes us to remember and forget. The study researched to discover the lawful relationships between environmental events and an organism’s behavior. The emphasis was clearly on observable events and how they are related. While behaviorism promulgated research in learning, interest in memory grew primarily from what is now called “cognitive orientation” – a study of the internal processes that result in knowledge and a study of how this knowledge is structured. (Learning and Memory, William C. Gordon, 1989).

 Word for today - Mzuri (Swahili) Fine (English) Angima (Luo)